Jan 2nd 2018 - What's Making Our Children Sick? - Sexual Abuse
What's Making Our Children Sick?
Dr. Michelle Perro, author of "What's Making Our Children Sick?: How Industrial Food Is Causing an Epidemic of Chronic Illness, and What Parents (and Doctors) Can Do About It", talks about her book and why change needs to happen in the food industry in order to heal our children and future generations to come.
#METOO
While A-list celebrities, and men in power are getting called out for their crap, it is important to acknowledge why victims kept silent for so long. Robin Perry Braun talks about shame from sexual abuse and the dark ties that come with it.Define shame:
- Shame is signaled when there is a secret we don’t want to anyone to know because we feel it will make them think less of us – it could have been a past behavior or a quality about us or something done to us.
How is shame present related to sexual abuse?Sex abuse can have different meanings to the victim depending on how the perpetrator kept them quiet about . In general, sexual abuse is taking a human being and turning them into an object so worthlessness is always attached at some level. The same comes forth when we are harassed or violated, also by pornography etc that being said there are many people that visit sites like https://www.nu-bay.com/categories/56/ass on a regular basis to involve porn as a part of their sexual relationship with their partners. Sexual abuse is evil, there is always darkness attached to it.
- If the perpetrator tells us the abuse is our fault like we wanted it or caused him to abuse us, we feel shame like we are dirty and corrupt
- If the perpetrator tells us we are special and its our special secret we feel shame because we enjoy the attention and it makes us feel special
- If we actually like the feeling of arousal we feel shame.
- If we don’t tell and grow up we feel shame because we see ourself as damaged goods and no one else would want us.
- The memories of any forced sex acts where we became dissociated in order to cope with the abuse, we feel shame because they were appalling to us.
